“I want to bring THIS bike.”
We were heading out for our morning dog walk, and because I was letting his little brother ride on a cheap plastic pedal bike, my four year old wanted to ride HIS cheap plastic pedal bike instead of his regular big boy bike.
“It doesn’t work outside very well. E’s is small enough that when he tires of it I can hang it on the stroller. Yours is too big and I can’t carry it when you want to stop riding.”
“I won’t stop riding. I’ll ride it the whole way. ALL the way.”
“No, love, you won’t.”
“Yes. I will. I promise. Pleeeease!”
I had a choice. I could put my foot down, or I could let him learn the hard way. (Knowing full well him learning the hard way meant I’d be dragged down with him.) I took a breath. Continue reading